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Happy people, do not play well幸福的人,不張揚

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Happy people, do not play well幸福的人,不張揚(譯文)


A friend who met many years, recently seemed to have disappeared, QQ avatar was gray, WeChat chat record in a blank, friend circle update stopped six months ago, a few of my friends with her have said that for a long time without her news The.


So I could not help but call her to ask about the status quo, asked why she disappeared in the circle of friends, whether suffered a life dilemma. Who told the phone that there are feast and feast, and she told me, "I am very happy and have nothing to say."


Happiness to have nothing to say, this simple and flirtatious words, in fact, will be hidden in their own endless words. A person, in the end how to have a heavy and well-known happiness, from the original arbitrary publicity, bent on the pursuit of vigorous, become so begrily words, for fear of disturbing the inner peace and happiness?


I thought of this decade with her acquaintance.


At the age of twenty, she was like all beautiful young girls, lips fiery warm. She met her favorite boyfriend, and day and night with his friends talking about his good, talking about his gentle, so joy and eager, so that her eyes reveals a shining light.


Friends laugh at her love, like a mad heart, she was more like a moth to fire, rushed, until the last was hurt hurt, crying over the night


It is really wantonly happy years, happy will be dancing, their crazy rotation is not enough, but also pull up the companions around the jump; and sad is not hidden, you can burst into tears, whether it is day or night, And whether friends are free, it is necessary to find the comfort side willing to give up.


The whole world knows her love in the sub-sub-combination, she was like a warrior, all the way stumbled, but also all the way courageously singing.


Sometimes, happiness is publicity, the pain is the need to vent, but happiness is deep and silent.


I asked her three years old, how life, the so-called nothing to say happiness is what, she is intermittent scattered, talking about are some of the most unusual years of small things.


The happiness of her mouth is like that. She turned around, in the love of the road finally met a rush man, then sentimentally Xu, married with their children, the daughter was born, their family moved to the suburbs of the old house, living with their parents.


Happy people, do not play well happy people, do not play well


Every morning, the man drove for half an hour to work, she at home to raise vegetables and vegetables to cook, the child by the mother to take care of the evening lights lit, the whole family in the courtyard eating dinner, complained homemade, through the usual Quiet time.


There is no big event in the world, and happiness is silent. She does not feel that day is rich, because the child is still less than a year old, she can not go out to work, can only wait a few years patience. But she happens to feel that this is also very good, although she can not tell where good


Just feel calm heart, her husband mild, parents health, young son Jiaohan, everything can not tell the wishful. World pressure, and some of her at the slightest also, but always faintly feel that this time is very valuable.


Precious to, she did not dare to disturb this happiness, for fear of words and phrases of the leak, happiness will be stingy stealth away, from then difficult to have. She even felt that happiness, not for outsiders, because it is too ordinary.


She said, live to three years old to understand, happy is crazy, but happy people, never publicity. Because happiness is a tiny fire, is a personal feeling, even with people to share, others can not really empathy.


So, she stopped the update of the circle of friends, and rarely contact with friends, but Yunfengfeng light to enjoy this calm time, speechless, but the heart abundance.


The world of greed and indignation crazy doubt, each can make you addicted to crazy. However, happiness is not the same, the real happiness, it is calm, it is gratifying, it is not proud of the heart.


Because the happiness itself is determined, quiet, silent, it is the early spring of the late flower fragrance, is the summer sunset pastoral, is the autumn of the moon, is the winter of deep water, is the world of wind blowing Valley gully, swing back to the years of long reverberation, and clip carrying a peaceful atmosphere.

 
Happy people, do not play well happy people, do not play well


Hong Kong female writer Zhang Xiaoxian low-key, usually rarely interviewed by the media, even less in public places talk about their feelings, but some time when asked, she quietly said: "I have encountered that he, happiness has been Are in. "


In CCTV's "reader" program, she also mentioned his own love. She said that in the twenty years of time, that love the people, every time to eat fish, the fish will always eat the best part of the folder to her.


She wrote more than sixty books, each of which is related to love, writing the world of joy twists and turns, but their own happiness has always silent silence. Because for her, happiness is nothing more than a fish of ordinary, Ming India in the heart will be good, but without publicity.


Some precious and simple feeling, is the need to carefully save the heart, if vividly, will inevitably be the world of wind blowing or dry.


Can be said that the export of grievances, they can not be wronged, and can say that the export of happiness, will also be marked with a discount.


Because of the face of happiness in the deep water, you in addition to fear and treasure, will be distracted, those publicity of wanton, in front of happiness, significantly extraordinarily redundant.


Many people in your invisible place to appreciate the happiness. Although they rarely contact with people, in the circle of friends can not find their shadow, but all the time, they are enjoying life.


I like those young friends wanton, happy screaming, sad when crying, as the summer sun and heavy rain, it is permeable, indulge in singing.


But I prefer those happy and low-key friends, they have had a burning, seen dying, mind clear, simple nature, know how in the corner of life to appreciate the tiny ordinary happiness, no show off the heart, no publicity state, support Afford to suffer, but also enjoy the happiness.


The world's most profound happiness, probably is happy to have nothing to say it


Can be said to have nothing to say, in fact, also said, but that is to say to their own heart. Those words, their own listening, is understood, and then no disturbance of the heart.


This may be the best emotional state that people are pursuing for life. So quiet, sure, peace, once the coming, you only happy to experience it, no need to declare to the mouth, but no need to tell the world.

 


Because the silent person, the most affectionate, and happy people, do not publicity.


一位相識多年的朋友,最近仿佛失去了蹤影,QQ頭像呈灰色,微信聊天記錄里一片空白,朋友圈的更新停在半年前,幾個我與她的共同好友都表示已經好久沒有她的消息了。

 

于是我忍不住打電話給她詢問近況,問她為何消失于朋友圈,是否遭遇了人生困境。誰知電話那邊言笑宴宴、溫情款款,她向我云淡風輕地解釋說:“最近很幸福,無話可說。”

 

幸福到無話可說,這句簡單而輕飄飄的話語,其實本身便蘊藏著說不盡的千言萬語。一個人,到底擁有怎樣厚重篤定的幸福,才能從原本恣意張揚、一心追求轟轟烈烈,變得如此吝惜言辭,生怕驚擾了內心的安寧與快樂呢?

 

我想到了與她相識的這十年光陰。

 

二十歲時,她如所有青春貌美的女孩一樣,紅唇烈火熱情洋溢。她認識了心儀的男友,便日夜不休地與朋友們念叨著他的各種好,說著他的各種溫柔,那般的喜悅和熱切,令她的眼睛里透著灼灼的光。

 

朋友們笑她深陷愛情,宛如失心瘋,她卻愈加如飛蛾撲火,奮不顧身,直到最后被情傷刺痛,嚎哭過長夜。

 

那真是個肆意張揚的好年月,快樂便翩翩起舞,自己瘋狂地旋轉尚且不夠,還要拉起身邊的同伴一起跳躍;而傷心也并不隱藏,可以放聲痛哭,不管是白日還是深夜,也不管朋友是否有空閑,定是要尋得安慰方肯罷休。

 

全世界都知曉她在愛情里的分分合合,她卻如同勇士,一路跌跌撞撞,卻也一路奮勇高歌。

 

有時,快樂是張揚的,痛苦是需要宣泄的,可幸福卻是深沉無言的。

 

我問三十歲的她,生活如何,所謂無話可說的幸福又是怎樣的,她卻斷斷續續零零散散,說起的都是些最尋常的歲月小事。

 

她口中的幸福是這樣的。她兜兜轉轉,在愛情的路上終遇到一個靠譜的男人,遂傾心相許,與之結婚生子,女兒出生后,他們全家搬到了郊區的老房子,與父母生活在一起。

 

Happy people, do not play well幸福的人,不張揚

 

每個清晨,男人驅車半小時去工作,她便在家里養花種菜讀書做飯,孩子由母親照看,傍晚燈光燃起,全家便在庭院里吃著晚飯,訴著家常,度過尋常的寧靜時光。

 

世間無大事,幸福也無言。她并不覺得日子富足,因為孩子尚不足一周歲,她無法外出工作,只能耐心再等待幾年。可她偏偏就覺得這也很好,雖然她也說不出來哪里好。

 

只是覺得內心平靜,丈夫溫和,父母健康,幼子嬌憨,一切都說不出來的如意。世間壓力,該有的她半點也不少,但卻總隱隱覺得,這段時光非常寶貴。

 

寶貴到,她竟然不敢去驚擾這種幸福,生怕一言半語的泄露,幸福便小氣地隱身而去,從此再難擁有。她甚至覺得這樣的()我的英語()幸福,不足為外人道,因為實在太過平凡。

 

她說,活到三十歲才懂得,快樂令人瘋狂,但幸福的人,從不張揚。因為幸福是微小的火光,是私人的感想,即便與人分享,旁人也無法真正的感同身受。

 

所以,她停止了朋友圈的更新,也很少與朋友聯系,只是云淡風輕地享受著這段平靜的時光,無言,卻內心豐盈。

 

世間的貪嗔癡慢疑,每一種都能令你為之沉迷瘋狂。然而幸福不一樣,真正的幸福,令人平靜,令人感恩,令人不起張揚之心。

 

因為幸福本身是篤定的、沉靜的、無言的,它是初春的晚花遺香,是盛夏的夕陽牧歌,是金秋的枝頭月圓,是冬日的靜水深流,是世間的風吹過山谷溝壑,蕩回來歲月悠悠的回響,且夾攜著安寧的氣息。

 Happy people, do not play well幸福的人,不張揚

 

香港女作家張小嫻生性低調,平日很少接受媒體采訪,更甚少在公眾場合談到自己的感情經歷,但某次當旁人問及時,她平靜地說:“我有遇到那個他,幸福一直都在。”

 

在央視的《朗讀者》節目里,她也提到了自己的愛情。她說,在二十年的時光里,那個相愛的人,每次吃魚,總會把魚臉上最好吃的那部分夾給她。

 

她寫了六十多本書,每一本都與愛情有關,寫盡了世間的歡苦波折,但對自己的幸福卻始終無言緘默。因為對她而言,幸福無非是一塊魚肉的平凡,銘印于心便好,卻無需四處張揚。

 

有些珍貴而樸素的感覺,是需要放在心頭認真保存的,若晃然于世,難免會被世間的大風吹散或者風干。

 

能說出口的委屈,便算不得委屈,而能說出口的幸福,也必然會打著折扣。

 

因為面對幸福的靜水深流,你除了敬畏與珍惜,一定會心無旁騖,那些張揚的肆意,在幸福面前,顯著格外多余。

 

很多人都在你看不見的地方體味著幸福。雖然他們很少與人聯系,在朋友圈也尋不到他們的身影,但每時每刻,他們都在享受生活。

 

我喜歡那些青春恣意的朋友,快樂時尖叫,悲傷時痛哭,如同盛夏的烈日與暴雨,令人通透淋漓,縱情歡歌。

 

但我更喜歡那些幸福且低調的朋友,他們有過灼熱,見過凋零,心思澄明,本性樸素,懂得在人生的角落里體味著微小平凡的幸福,無炫耀之心,無張揚之態,撐得起苦難,也享得起幸福。

 

世間最深沉的幸福,大概便是幸福到無話可說了吧。

 

可所謂的無話可說,其實亦是說了,只不過,是說給自己的內心聽。那些話,自己聽了,便是懂了,便再無擾攘之心。

 

這也許是人們畢生所追尋的最佳情感狀態。那樣的沉靜、篤定、安寧,一旦來臨,你只歡喜地體會便好,無需宣之于口,更無需昭告天下。

 

因為無言的人,最深情,而幸福的人,不張揚。

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